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Assets of the Virgo:
Gentle, hard workers, detail-oriented, devoted, good friends, civic-minded, able to make quick judgments, extremely caring…
Main motivation:
PERFECTION
Negatives (and how to transform them):
Judges others by external appearances
Learn to ‘judge a container by its content, not its label.’ Look deeper into a person, and do not put so much importance on what they look like.
Reacts without regard for anybody else’s feelings
If you spot it, you got it! People are mirrors for us, so when we see faults in other people, it is reflecting something in ourselves.
Doesn’t accept criticism.
No one is right 100% of the time. Though you may be right 99% of the time, be open to what others have to say.
Impatience
Being patient with someone is actually a gift. By holding your tongue and listening, you are doing a great act of sharing.
Focuses on the small scale
Virgos have the ability to make great changes for large amounts of people, as long as they are taught to widen their focus.
Worriers
Virgos always see what needs to be done next, and this state of constantly being “on” makes them inclined to worry. On top of that, they think they have to do everything by themselves.
You are not alone. It’s OK to ask others for help. In fact, it’s recommended.
How to improve relationships with a Virgo:
Don’t take their criticisms personally.
When they are being testy, it’s best not to engage them. It’s hard to tango alone.
Encourage them to learn how to relax.
Give them criticisms by proposing alternate solutions. Don’t just lecture them.
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