When we make a vow, we create a spiritual vessel, and energy automatically comes to fill that vessel.  We experience that light as the good feeling we get when we make a promise.

Therein lies the problem.  We get the light for simply having the intention.  But when we don’t follow through on our commitments, we still get the light, only there is no vessel to contain it.  Now that energy falls into a black hole.  That’s when things start going wrong.

The solution is simple.  Keep your word.  Or don’t give it.